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Thursday, March 29, 2012

The Seven Deadly Sins: Gluttony

How Much Pleasure Is Enough?

Put a knife to your throat if you are given to gluttony
Some people can't have enough toys, television, entertainment, sex, or company. It is about an excess of anything.
There are at least three forms of Gluttony:
1) Wanting more pleasure from something than it was made for.
2) Wanting it exactly our way (delicacy).
3) Demanding too much from people (excessive desire for other people's time or presence).

More Pleasure Than It Was Made For
The world is full of good things, from the beauty of the stars to the ever-changing and never-changing oceans to the pleasure of human company. We are free to enjoy these things without becoming focused on any one of them to the exclusion of all else. It is possible to become so caught up in a pleasure, whether food or fun, that we can no longer enjoy other things, and would be willing to sacrifice other pleasures for the one.
We enter into Gluttony when we demand more pleasure from something than it was made for. Normally, we can only eat so much food, but some people in Ancient Rome wanted more pleasure, so they threw up after the meal and then ate more. This allowed them to enjoy eating more at the cost of health (and dignity).

Delicacy
In "The Screwtape Letters," C.S. Lewis describes delicacy as a desire to have things exactly our way. He gives the example of food having to be prepared just right, or in just the right amount, but it isn't limited to food. We might complain about unimportant defects in a product, the temperature in the room, or the color of a laundry basket. There is a certain amount of discomfort to be expected in life, but the Glutton will have none of it. Instead of becoming strong by suffering the minor inconveniences of life, the Glutton insists on being pampered. No one dares to point out how petty or foolish they are. In fact, some celebrities are praised for their excessive perfectionism, as though it were a virtue.

Demanding Too Much From People
There can be a healthy and natural enjoyment of time spent with friends and acquaintances, but some people just can't get enough. They make demands until the other person moves away or explodes in anger. The Glutton is wounded that someone would take offense at their "love" for them. At least some people can get away. Far worse is when a parent demands too much from a child, requiring too much time or too many accomplishments from someone too small to grant so many pleasures. Even pets get excessive attention at times, but they don't seem to mind as much.
In some dating relationships, one person desires the other's company constantly, to the point that the other can barely hold down a job or continue in school. Whatever the reasons, the object of affection is expected to provide the pleasure of their company (at least) more of the time than is reasonable. Even in marriage, it is possible for a couple to be so "romantic" that the children are neglected. One legitimate pleasure (sex) can become obsessive to the point that another pleasure (the company of one's children) is lost

4 comments:

  1. I feel the old saying "moderation in all things" should apply in every area of our lives. Just having gratitude for what we
    do have seems to be lacking in society.
    People want MORE and when exactly is enough?

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  2. Maybe.. I'm in the 3rd category :(
    I didn't knew it was a sin to feel the need to be with some one we truly love :(

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  3. its official, im a sin with legs!..omg i read all the sins you had posted, its kind of weird how one may read it and relate to it, and its totally true!,its crazy how every little thing in life is a sin...who knew being lazy would be a sin, but then that leads to greed, instead of being in bed you could do something(helping others)...oh the connections!
    dont they teach this in mythology as well?, its a myth but they teach it, but this is bible works..SO ZEUS AND ALL THOSE GUYS ARE REAL lol(plus the stories that came with it,birth through armpits..etc)...
    Thanks to you, i will not fall in love, not go to sleep when i am tired, and eat old scraps, yah happy now? lol(jk)
    These 7 sins posts were very interesting ..Thank you!

    -MJheartdefiner

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  4. You described one of my friends perfectly. I love her to pieces, but she constantly complains about every little thing that isn't "right". It's draining. :/

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