EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES

A normal, healthy relationship between two people (a friend, family member, your partner, a co-worker), is one that is complementary, where there is an exchange of values. Instead, the primary intention of the vampire is taking advantage of others. These people are not really happy that their happiness depends in many cases the unhappiness of those around them.

They are people with much jealousy, are envious to see the other aspects and aspects that are missing. Which are at ease with themselves depends on which other are not. They want the relationship functioning under their absolute control, causing a huge insecurity to the rest.

The first impression one has of them is that they look better than ordinary people. They are brilliant, charming, like them, awaken confidence, one would expect from them more than others. This is quite a paradox, one expects more and get less and ends up being captured by the vampire.

The ideal victim can be of two types: either weak-willed people who can not see the above subject, or people with positive energy and offer your help without expecting reciprocity.

In any case, these two types of characters are a very strong challenge to the emotional vampire. If you manage to catch the victim, the vampire will not rest, will stick like glue, not realizing the victim invites the vampire to enter the victim life and happily installed as a parasite, exploiting the power of the victim. The vampire will want this person to be your confidant, your savior and your all and sooner or later will warn you loaded with an unbearable burden.

The victim becomes aware of the error, when the vampire is gone, leaving it empty, like your wallet or perhaps a broken heart. Even then, the victim ask ... It´s this person or It´s me? It's them. Emotional vampires.

The victim is for vampire just an "emotional nourishment." Needs to feed on their energy, without giving anything in return, this need is greater than any other. Therefore need to have a total and absolute control of its prey, is afraid to lose the victim, because without the victim, the vampire is nothing. Meanwhile, the victim ignorant of this dependence translates aggressor into feelings and emotions.

Advices to fend off the emotional vampires:

1 - You, not the vampires, have control. They want to convince you that no other choice but to submit yourself to them. REMEMBER: There are always other options, alternatives, even leaving.
2 - The strength comes from the connection. They use hypnosis to turn away from people who you trust and convince you to change the rules under which you believe. REMEMBER: Keep tightly your values.
3 - Safety mean to bite your fears. Emotional vampires use fear and confusion to control you. REMEMBER: Do not go running scared. Change your ways. When you deal with vampires, the choice seems more frightening, is usually correct.