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Monday, March 12, 2012

Judgment Upon Others


Our lives take twists and turns, up hills and down through valleys. Everything in our lives happens for a reason. Lessons are learned and burdens are bared, scars are adorned and joys remembered. But, along the journey of life some develop a sense of hierarchy above others that travel the same road as they. Soon passing judgments upon others that walk beside them. Our life choices do not make one better than the other, each life is a journey of individuality, with the common goal of coming together as one in the end for the greater of good.  

People can pass judgment about any subject they can think of, politics, religion, family, career, apperance, raising children, the list can go on forever. Who is right, who is wrong? No one…there are no instructions provided for our lives.  One of the worst things you can do is judge, because you never really understand why someone is conducting themselves in a certain way.  We all have different journeys in our lives.
We grow up in a world full of judgment; this is what makes children feel insecure about themselves as they grow into adults. Usually causing more harm than good to the person. Some grow up with complexes about themselves, and become self destructive because of it. Hurting themselves or those around them, because of what they were judged upon at an early age. Before passing judgment upon anyone else, ask yourself would you want them to judge you?
Isn’t one of the first things that our creator told us not to do was pass judgment? That's our creators job, not ours.

3 comments:

  1. so true, if we take the time to put ourselves in others shoes, would we handle things the same way as we would do for ourselves..never judge. I agree they young are troubled souls from their childhood days and as they grow they can't seem to out grow the pain and hurt they have endured, no matter if it is devastating words, or in physical abuse. God bless you

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  2. Yes we have all different journeys in our lives..Difficult to drive sometimes..coz what we have lived..
    Some have left deep scars in my Soul, in my childhood
    they've killed me for life..I never liked me..
    frightening to grow with ghosts in mind, in nights & nightmares..

    Some have left deep scars in my Heart,
    leaving bitter memories.. and the feeling to have been used, trampled, lowered, devastated.

    Life have left many scars on my body...
    completing a sad reflection of me in the mirror.

    not forgetting...that, often, words are more cutting than the scalpel of the surgeon.
    Scars.. were what I've lived the most of time.

    I try to take the ways life leaves me.. the ways that others don't use.. the ways where there are no hurts at the end..
    Sometimes, I feel as a lost soul...

    What is the use to suffer always and always.. I just want to be loved.. really loved by someone true and loving.. someone in who I can put ALL MY TRUST and ALL MY LOVE..
    Is it too much?

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  3. AMEN!..THANK YOU!
    UGH i just wished everyone actually followed this!, i mean at times i say stuff and i dont realize it is me judging than i think MJ, than i stop myself!
    Its so annoying how some can act, did you know that if you do not judge you dont fit in?, you are called names!..its so stupid!..its not nice!

    -MJheartdefiner!

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